Parents and guardians in our society is mainly of two types:
1. One who completely prohibits their children from watching movies and films.
2. One who never cares about what their kids are watching on TV/smart phones/computers etc.
Guardians type 02 are basically unaware of the long-term harmful impacts of watching violent and sexually suggestive scenes and advertisements on the minds of their kids.
But the more dangerous are guardians type 01. Here 'psychology of prohibition' works, which results in increased curiosity and desire to acquire more knowledge on 'prohibited issues'. We all know this is a 21st century, technologies is in our hands and single click can connect us to the world. So such kids find their way to watch all the movies out there up to that extent their guardians can never think of.
Hence, type 01 guardians are more dangerous in the sense they have false perception of their kids being 'shareef' and the matter is totally different.
SOLUTIONS
Solution is simple. Be a moderate guardian. Intemperance of any form is dangerous. So take out time for your kids. Study the reviews and scripts of movies, research their good/bad impacts. Sit with your kids, best to have dinner together in vacations like Sundays. Watch your 'pre-researched' movies and animated cartoons of good moral values. You may not like such movies and cartoons but remember the saying; "What is important to the other person as important to you as the other person is to you".
Leave your kids for studies up to next week. I bet, they will eagerly wait for you at next Sunday
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Time to time, aware them of the bad impacts of violent movies and dirty films. Remember, control your anger in unexpected reactions, don't preach at them that "Log kya kahenge inhi ka aysa beta/beti hai" like sentences. But educate them that "bad" movies and films may keep them form their studies, destroy their imaginative faculties and intellects as well as have a long-term adverse effect on the over all healthy life style.
Owen D. Young, one of America's great business leader, once said:
"People who can put themselves in the place of other people, who can understand the workings of their minds, need never worry about what the future has in store for them."